Showing posts with label play. Show all posts
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Monday, October 27, 2008

A New Week...and I'm Glad

Well, last week was a long week in some ways and very short in others.  It was one of those weeks that it is really hard to pause and take a moment to write something meaningful.  Most of my thoughts last week centered around two things.  First, a woman I work with has a daughter that doesn't live with her and a couple of weeks ago she attempted suicide.  Last week, she took some drugs at school that could have done the same thing.  It was a hard week at work for her and I caught myself engaging in her situation more than at other times.  


Second, early voting.  The stories of 2000 people per hour voting and then me maybe standing in one of those long lines...do I or don't I?  I didn't.  I didn't and don't want to write about the election again either.

That brings me to today - a Monday where I have been posting some of the funny videos I have found lately.  However, today I am energized by something that I want to share with you.  Yesterday morning, we went to "church."  It was not church the way most of you did church or most of you may think about church.  In the past couple of months, we have done "church" at the YMCA, in Galveston homes wrecked by Ike, and in Dickinson backyards removing trees.  Yesterday, we were the Church at the Clear Lake Lanes.  Four families and their kids met at the bowling alley, showed off some incredibly humbling bowling ability and shared some rich conversations.  We had long-timers and newcomers.  After we played together, we went to a new burger joint called Mooyah and broke bread together.  All together it was one of the most fun experiences of being the Church that I have had.  Jase and Ashley, I'm glad you made it.  Craig and Andrea, thank you for not rubbing in the Baylor loss to your huskers, and Renee and Nicholas...you always make me laugh.  My family had a place to belong and a place to play yesterday.


Some may say that we are just playing and not doing anything "significant," but I would argue that in the very act of "just playing" we just might be doing something very significant.  You see all of us that were at that bowling alley today have very busy lives and are pushing ourselves to the limits.  By taking a morning to relax and go have fun together, we just might be offering one of the most significant things we can to each other - the opportunity to exhale.

A man named Lyle Schaller, who has studied churches for years, said at the turn of the century, "The biggest challenge for the church at the opening of the 21st century is to develop a solution to the discontinuity and fragmentation of the American lifestyle."  Our lives as families are spent trying to go in all the necessary directions all the time.  In most cases church just becomes one more thing that pulls at us.  At the Springs, we want to be part of the solution here.  We could go ahead and program out your spiritual life too and then call you lax for not doing everything we tell you that you should, but that's not our M.O..  We want to help you be the church where you live, work and play.  We want to help people bring their whole lives under the alignment of a relationship with Jesus.  It's not compartmentalized...and it's definitely not wrapped up in our programmed activities.  I am so glad that my new friends came bowling with us because I would have not been able to have the same conversations at the YMCA with them.  We did not discuss the details of premillenialism or dispensationalism, but we did talk about our real lives.  And we'll be together again next week, too...if not sooner!


Saturday, August 2, 2008

What a night we had together last night...not what I expected or planned, but incredible, nonetheless.  My topic for the night was to be the "priority of play" for families.  The focal text for the night was John 10:1-10.  The chairs were removed to help the parents get down on level with the kids - something we don't do often enough.  I then gave every family a roll of aluminum foil.  I had planned on having the kids "sculpt" their family and their homes during my teaching, but the sound of the aluminum foil was much louder than I anticipated...play-dough would have worked much better for that.  So, on the fly, we divided the room and had a contest between the two sides and selected finalists for their artwork and we will judge them tonight.  After the artwork was completed, we then proceeded to have an all-out foil fight between the two sides.  It was awesome!  We laughed from our guts and then cleaned up before I proceeded to move through the focal passage in way to short of time.  God's call for us is to live a more and better life than we often live.  Jesus was not afraid to have fun, to embrace the moment...whether with children or with his adult disciples.  We too, have to spend time having fun and playing with our kids - no matter if they are 1 & 7 like mine, or 11 & 17.  It's on us as parents to make this happen.  To wrap up the night, I pulled out my iPhone and demonstrated the greatness of the phone saber, then Russell, the pastor from Snyder, jumped up and pulled out his iPhone and we had dueling phone saber wars, all to the laughter and cheers of the crowd.  We ended the night with Rich singing his Jason Mraz-like "Help Me" with families arm-in-arm dancing and laughing...and loving.


Great night.